reg loan modification....

My company let go of 70 employees on May of this year. I called BOA right away to inform them of the situation I was in and requested information on home retention. After providing some financial details I was told I may qualify for the making homes affordable prgrm. After not receiving the packet I called again and finally had received my application and they were set with all my documents in early July. When I started this process I was not deliquent with my loan, since then I have been calling on a weekly basis (as instructed) to follow-up on my status. Well the reponse is that my file in review by the underwriter and it should take 30 days, I also recived a fed-ex pkg that says I will get a response in 30 days. I called the bank again yesterday and was tolda that although they say 30 days it may take longer, how much longer then? " I don't know" there are no new notes in my record for them to follow up on! I am now deliquent and they will not accept partial payment, but will not foreclose while under review.
So, if I am denied after so far, 7 mos, I may lose my home.
Where is the help we were supposed to get after bailing out the banks? Is anyone else experiencing this with BOA?