does a quick claim deed superceed a 5yr old court order

We divorced in 2006 with a judgement saying the house was to be sold with the wife receiving a portion of the proceeds. Husband was given right of first refusal. The house was not sold and my wife didn't care if I lived there with my son. I recently filed for a hardship modification. My mortgage co. ran me through hoops with finally saying they needed a quick claim deed. My wife agreed and signed it which was legally registered with the county. Now the mortgage co. stopped proceedings saying they could not violate a court order. Do I have recourse to get this modification with the quick claim deed in place vs. a five yr old court order which my ex doesn't care about????? I live in NJ